Pastor’s Message for February 2025

Greetings, Friends!

     I am blessed to be part of a system which holds me accountable for my life and work. In the United Methodist Church, each church has a committee known as the Staff—Parish (or Pastor—Parish) Relations Committee (or SPRC). The SPRC does a number of things pertaining to the life and ministry of the pastor. In particular, the SPRC meets annually with the pastor to evaluate the faithfulness, fruitfulness, and effectiveness of the ministry of the church. While I play a role in the ministry of the church, the vast majority of the ministry of the church takes place through the work of the people of the church (known as the laity). Part of the evaluation process involves discernment concerning how the pastor leads others to more actively and effectively engage in the ministry to which God has called them.

     My leadership style is kind of like that of a coach. The coach doesn’t score the touchdown. The coach doesn’t hit the home run or score the winning goal. The coach prepares the players to do their work most effectively, and trains the players on the best practices to become the best player they can be. Sometimes the coach gives a pat on the back, but other times the coach has to give a “kick in the backside.” Sometimes the easy thing to do as pastor is to simply take over and do the work myself. In those moments I need to remember that God has not called me to do everything, but to do the work that I’ve been called to do to the best of my ability. The SPRC is the committee of the church that helps me set and live into healthy boundaries.

     The SPRC serves as a liaison between the pastor and the congregation. It can be intimidating to bring concerns one might have about the church to the pastor. The SPRC serves as a channel from the laity to the pastor and from the pastor to the laity. The SPRC is where I would go if I were struggling with a personal issue that needed help from the laity, or perhaps some time off, or any other issues which may arise. Also, the committee serves as a channel from the laity to the pastor to handle those personal issues which the pastor needs to be made aware of. Afterall, we don’t know what we don’t know. The SPRC helps to communicate the unknown issues between the pastor and laity so that needs can be addressed and issues can be remedied. The SPRC helps me to be a more faithful, fruitful, and effective pastor, and for the church to function more peacefully and effectively. I’m thankful that we get to do ministry together.

God loves you, and so do I,
Pastor Jim Sands

Coming Up…

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            1AA Meeting from 10:30 am to 12:00 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
2Adult Sunday School from 10:00 am to 10:45 am
+ Google calendarWorship w/ Communion from 11:00 am to 12:00 am
Holy Communion Offered Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids' Sunday School from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
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3Bible Study from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm
Focus on the Gospel of Mark
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4Bible Study from 1:30 pm to 2:30 pm
Focus on the Gospel of Mark
+ Google calendarBowling League from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
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5Ash Wednesday Worship from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
with the Imposition of Ashes Aliquippa First UMC + Google calendarAA Meeting from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
6Busy Hands from 1:00 pm to 3:00 pm
Volunteer Group
Carey Community Center + Google calendar
7 8Daylight Saving Time Begins all day
DST begins at 2am 3/9/2025. Remember to "spring forward" and turn your clocks ahead before bedtime! + Google calendarAA Meeting from 10:30 am to 12:00 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
9Adult Sunday School from 10:00 am to 10:45 am
+ Google calendarWorship from 11:00 am to 12:00 am
Traditional worship, including prayer and the singing of traditional hymns. Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids' Sunday School from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
Times are approximate. Begins after children's message during 11am worship. + Google calendarLadies' Tea Planning Meeting from 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm
Those willing to help with the upcoming Ladies’ Tea are asked to join a brief meeting following worship. See Vera Lovewell or Tina Allen with questions. Help from both ladies and gentlemen appreciated! Upper Level Meeting Room + Google calendarMy Body is Not a Prayer Request Study from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm
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10Bible Study from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm
Focus on the Gospel of Mark
Aliquippa First UMC + Google calendarBook Club from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
"Reading United Methodists" Discussing:
The Secret Life of Sunflowers by Marta Molnar
Aliquippa First UMC + Google calendar
11Food Pantry Distribution from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm
+ Google calendarBible Study from 1:30 pm to 2:30 pm
Focus on the Gospel of Mark
+ Google calendarBowling League from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
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12Community Lenten Luncheon from 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm
Lunch at noon followed by a short reflection presented by a speaker from this week's host church.
Free and open to the public; goodwill offering will be accepted each week.
This Week's Host: Redeemer Trinity Lutheran Church, 819 Washington Ave, Monaca + Google calendarMinistry Action Team Meeting from 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm
+ Google calendarNo PhDs Today (Aliquippa 1st) from 6:30 pm to 12:00 am
+ Google calendarMeeting of the Eves from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm
Evening Women's Group of Monaca & Aliquippa First UMCs Monaca UMC + Google calendarAA Meeting from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
13 14 15Coffee Mugs & Kids Club from 10:00 am to 12:00 am
Stories and activities for kids; coffee and conversation for moms! Carey Community Center + Google calendarAA Meeting from 10:30 am to 12:00 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
16Adult Sunday School from 10:00 am to 10:45 am
+ Google calendarWorship from 11:00 am to 12:00 am
Traditional worship, including prayer and the singing of traditional hymns. Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids' Sunday School from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
Times are approximate. Begins after children's message during 11am worship. + Google calendarNOW Movie from 2:00 pm to 4:30 pm
Showing God's Not Dead Aliquippa First UMC + Google calendarMy Body is Not a Prayer Request Study from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm
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17Bible Study from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm
Focus on the Gospel of Mark
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18Bible Study from 1:30 pm to 2:30 pm
Focus on the Gospel of Mark
+ Google calendarBowling League from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
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19Community Lenten Luncheon from 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm
Lunch at noon followed by a short reflection presented by a speaker from this week's host church.
Free and open to the public; goodwill offering will be accepted each week.
Monaca UMC is this week's host! (813 Indiana Ave, Monaca) + Google calendarStaff-Parish Relations Committee Meeting from 6:00 pm to 12:00 am
+ Google calendarExecutive Council Meeting from 7:00 pm to 12:00 am
+ Google calendarAA Meeting from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
20Busy Hands from 1:00 pm to 3:00 pm
Volunteer Group
Carey Community Center + Google calendar
21 22AA Meeting from 10:30 am to 12:00 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendarTrivia! from 1:00 pm to 3:00 pm
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23Adult Sunday School from 10:00 am to 10:45 am
+ Google calendarWorship from 11:00 am to 12:00 am
Traditional worship, including prayer and the singing of traditional hymns. Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids' Sunday School from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
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24Bible Study from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm
Focus on the Gospel of Mark
Aliquippa First UMC + Google calendar
25Bible Study from 1:30 pm to 2:30 pm
Focus on the Gospel of Mark
+ Google calendarBowling League from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
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26Community Lenten Luncheon from 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm
Lunch at noon followed by a short reflection presented by a speaker from this week's host church.
Free and open to the public; goodwill offering will be accepted each week.
This Week's Host: Monacrest Free Methodist Church, 995 Elmira St, Monaca + Google calendarAliquippa First "PhDs" from 6:30 pm to 12:00 am
For "Projects Half Done" - knitting/crochet group; 2nd & 4th Wednesday of the month at Aliquippa First UMC + Google calendarAA Meeting from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
27 28 29AA Meeting from 10:30 am to 12:00 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
30Adult Sunday School from 10:00 am to 10:45 am
+ Google calendarWorship from 11:00 am to 12:00 am
Traditional worship, including prayer and the singing of traditional hymns. Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids' Sunday School from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
Times are approximate. Begins after children's message during 11am worship. + Google calendar5th Sunday Donut Fellowship from 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm
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31Order Deadline for Easter Flowers all day
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+ Google calendarBible Study from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm
Focus on the Gospel of Mark
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